Mortgage and divorce — practical guide
Divorce with a joint mortgage is one of the worst situations to navigate. Both spouses are jointly and severally liable, regardless of who lives in the property after divorce. Here's how to handle it.
Joint and several liability — what it means
Until the mortgage is settled, both spouses are responsible for the full amount, even if one moves out. The bank can pursue either for the entire balance — it doesn't matter that you split costs informally.
Even after divorce decree, the mortgage agreement is unaffected. You must actively change it.
Three main scenarios
- Sell the property and split proceeds — cleanest, but may lose money in down market
- One spouse keeps property, refinances mortgage to their name only — most common
- Continue joint ownership, both pay — only works for amicable divorces, rarely sustainable
Refinancing to one applicant
The remaining spouse must qualify alone — pass DSTI, DTI, LTV checks on solo income. If they don't qualify, the property must be sold or the divorce delayed.
Procedure: solo applicant gets new mortgage, pays off the old joint mortgage, the leaving spouse signs a transfer of property rights (usually with a settlement payment).
Settlement amount
Typical: leaving spouse gets 50 % of property value minus 50 % of remaining mortgage. Example: property 5M, mortgage 3M → remaining equity 2M, leaving spouse gets 1M.
Court can adjust based on contributions, custody of children, etc.
FAQ
Can the bank force sale of the property in divorce?
Only if neither spouse pays. As long as installments come in, the bank doesn't care about your marital status. Force comes from the court if you can't agree on settlement.
What if my ex stops paying their half?
You're 100 % liable to the bank. Pay the full installment to avoid default, then sue your ex for their share. Painful but necessary.
Can I just transfer the mortgage to my ex without bank approval?
No. Mortgage transfer requires bank approval — they reassess solvency. If your ex doesn't qualify, you stay on the mortgage.